Nov 19

Fiera Arouser for Her turns “have to” into “want to” #FeelTheLove #CG

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I want to alert anybody reading that this post is regarding intimate relationships.  If you are under the age of 18 or not comfortable with this topic, please do not read any further.


If you’re like me, you love your kids, but you’d swear they are birth control.  The energy to care for 3 of them is huge!  Usually the only time my husband and I have together is at the end of the day, when we’re both exhausted and spent.  Often I will agree to an “encounter” without really wanting to, mostly because the effort to be “all in” is just not possible at that point, and I’m not even taking into consideration the time investment.  It’s becoming increasingly hard for both of us to switch from “parent” to “partner”, even though I’ve always needed more of a time buffer than him between the two roles in my life to really fulfill the latter.

I’ve found a tool that helps jump start our intimate moments: the Fiera™ Arouser for Her™.  It’s a hands-free device that helps increase blood flow and lubrication, getting you on your way to together town more quickly.  The Fiera is very small and discreet, and something that can easily be stashed or tucked into luggage when taking a trip.

It’s clear to see that a lot of research went into the Fiera. I think the coolest aspect is how it uses suction to keep it hands-free. Without getting too descriptive, the Fiera® does fulfill its claims.  It is marketed as an item for “before-play” and it definitely is, as this product is different than others you’ll find out there.  However, any user should feel free to continue to use it during sex if she feels so inclined. 


I know not everybody struggles with disinterest in sex. However, I do know many women that feel exactly like I do and I’m sure we’re not alone.  Stop the inevitable tension that arises from missed intimacy.  I find that when my husband and I are connected sexually, we are just generally happier and co-parent better.  Do yourself a favor and pick up the Fiera as a holiday gift to both of you and reconnect as a couple.  Getting rid of this one source of stress (yes, it can be stressful!) will make this busy time of year so much easier and relaxed.  After all, you’re with your partner for a reason.  Make the closest time you spend with him enjoyable for both of you.


If you want to find out more about how Fiera® works, feel free to check out their website here: http://clvr.li/1LY18hU.  They have lots of FAQs, testimonials and even videos to show how it works and more.

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

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  1. 9
    Marnie G (Derrick Todd)

    Good info — it is true, intimacy is very important in a relationship.

  2. 8
    Brandon Sparks

    This does sound very cool.. I will look more into it Thanks..

  3. 7
    Hannah C

    This sounds like a great product for intimacy with your partner. Thanks for sharing.

  4. 6
    Sandra Watts

    Well thanks for sharing that with us.

  5. 5

    What a wonderful idea! No muss no fuss lol. But really i agree 100 percent with everything you said about relationships after childrenand we only have one so far.and it seems like my libido has dropped to…..well nonexistent and this could be a great investment…. Now just to get the little one OUT of our bed not to sound mean but he is almost two!!! Well to be fair 18 .months but still its time

  6. 4
    Kimberly Flickinger

    Sounds very interesting. Thank you for sharing.

  7. 3

    We struggle with the frequency of intimacy around here. Kids definitely drain the life out of me! Interesting product…I will sneak over and take a look! 🙂

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    Rebecca Swenor

    This sounds like an interesting product indeed for those needing a jump start. It truly is true that kids can be a great form of birth control for a couple. Being intimate can be a great way to relieve stress.

  9. 1
    Amber Ludwig

    Sounds interesting!! Its so true that kiddos are natural birth control!! My relationship is really feeling it lately!

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